Oh, You're Dating My Ex..

Cool, I'm eating a sandwich.

Want those leftovers too?

What is an Ex?

Ex means:

Thank you for the EXperiene.

Our time together has EXpired.

Now it is time for you to EXit my life.

Ladies, I know we have all had this moment. 

Where we found out, or even unluckily SAW WITH OUR OWN EYES...

DUN DUN DUN

Our ex, with another woman. 

Well, I'm here to tell you sweetheart, you'll never find another man like him again. 

AND

I think.....

Thats kind of the point.

No matter how happy you think this other person is without you, there is always more to the story than what is told. 

Never condemn someone on what somebody tells you, what you hear, or what you see on social media.

There is your truth, there is their truth, and then there is the actual truth. 

You loved him.

You love him.

But, you are no longer "in love".

No matter how much you hate him girl, you love him. 

You have great times that you will never be able to erase from your mind, or his. 

 Sadly, we all know once too much damage has been inflicted it is time to say goodbye.

It was time to agree that you tried your hardest to put the pieces back together. 

You saw him moving on with someone else, you heard about it, or face it you will eventually.

It doesn't mean you should wish any sort of pain on him or this new person. 

  

Despite all the bad things you and him went through, I know sometimes you catch yourself looking back and smiling at all the good times with this person. 

Wish him all the best.

Wish her all the best.

Because don't forget, that girl was once you. 

Pray that he treats her right and doesn't make the same mistake that he made with you over and over again.

The pain will always be there for what you could have been, but what you could have been is exactly what you were. 

Sometimes we need to lose something in order to learn a lesson from the universe and move on to our next step in life

In this case his lesson was?

He clearly dropped a diamond, while trying to pick up pennies. 

Should you regret this person?

NO.

They were in your life at the exact point that you needed them.

As much as you taught them a lesson by letting go, he taught you a lesson. 

You are strong enough.

Change is OK. 

Moving on is OK.

Because gorgeous, there are guys who would beg for your pretty little heart. 

Make room for someone new. 

Don't waste your precious time holding on to someone who didn't appreciate you all the way through. 

It's better to let someone walk away from you than walk all over you. 

You're a dreamgirl. 

Not a doormat. 

Sometimes we need to love a difficult man or two, to appreciate the good ones

If you can love the wrong person this much, just imagine how much you will love the right one. 

Someday, all of that love you have given away, will find its way back to you. 

And finally..

It will stay.