Why do men cheat?

Men cheat for the same reason that a dog licks their balls.....


 because they can.

How to spot a cheater before it's too late.

Pay attention.

Firstly, it is a universal thing. 

It doesn't just happen to girls, it happens to guys as well. 

But, ladies WHY do men cheat?

Have you been cheated on previously? 

Here is a big problem.
~Only one I really wanna talk about, out of the many~

When we go into a relationship automatically assuming that all guys are cheaters, the danger is we begin to attract that.

When we've been hurt in a previous relationship we have our guard up, understandably so.

You end up attracting exactly what you don't want because you begin to look for evidence that someone is cheating. 

Now, the worst part of this isn't that you will find a cheater from snooping. 

The worst part about this is, when you start thinking of a guy who is not a cheater, as a cheater, he starts thinking about himself in that way, too.

Its kind of like, if you went through a guys phone looking for evidence.

You assume he was cheating, and he found out you were looking at his phone.

 Well girl you just gave him the feeling of hopelessness. 

Now he is thinking " No matter what I do for this woman, she is going to think I am a cheater anyway."

Now he feels "Nothing that I do can ever prove to this woman that I am not a cheater". 

No matter what I do, she is not going to trust me. 

When people get to a point when someones never going to trust them no matter what they do, you push them to a breaking point. 

They lose any motivation or insentive to be the right thing for you anyway.

Yes

A relationship is made for two, but SOME bitches don't know how to count.

I am not justifying the fact the person cheats, just the simple things to look out for in YOURSELF.
We can never control another persons actions, the power lies in our own.

When you get validated into being something, it gives you a very powerful force into becoming more of that.

Identities work like that. 

If you said to a guy"You know, what I really value about you is your loyalty and romantic side." 

He now is going to feel like he wants to be loyal and more romantic.

Influence someone by the identity that you give them from the beginning. 

If you always identify everyone as a cheater, thats always going to lead you to more trouble. 

If you can find someone who shows you signs of loyalty, and then identify them as a loyal person and show them you love that about them, then you are going to show this person more of what you want, than what you don't want. 

Just don't go looking for things that don't really have a red flag, or you will create one.

One last thing.
Try not getting in trouble, don't fall for a dog who has his eyes on every bitch.


The Chair With Chels💋