Fed up with the lying, sneaking around and maybe even cheating?
There really is a shortage of men out there.
Single ones.
The good ones at least.
The kind that is your type.
The kind who don't cheat.
The kind who doesn't take forever and a day to text you back.
The kind who isn't either drunk or high every time you see them.
The type who is willing to compromise.
The type who softly speaks through a problem, and doesn't yell.
The ones who don't disappoint you time after time because they " Ain't got it figured out yet".
We know that the mirror of a mans heart is in his actions.
So, why do we keep falling for it over and over again?
You'd think it would be simple.. RIGHT?
Appreciate us, text us back, play with our hair, bring us food and don't put your dick in anyone else.
But NOOO.
Too hard for you.
Good thing for me, i'd rather be single than have to deal with sneaky shit.
For those of you who think " But Chelsssssss like totally whats like a queen without her King?
Well...
Historically speaking, more powerful.
So, don't sweat it.
Like the wise Carrie Bradshaw once said; "Maybe our girlfriends are our soulmates and guys are just people to have fun with".
If you're a girl sitting there wondering where you went wrong after genuinely trying everything you could, don't get so down on yourself just because he left and did something stupid.
Just know that it isn't about you.
It never was.
Never has been.
Never gon be.
Men do not run away and cheat only because of you.
It's their own insecurities.
Most of the time they don't care if they get caught because they don't even know what they want.
Until what they want is what they can't have anymore.
For goodness sake, Our poor Khloe..
KHLOE OUT OF ALL BEAUTIFUL GODDESSES IN THE WORLD got cheated on at the worst time in history for her and Tristan didn't even try to hide it.
The man is 6"9, he's too tall to be cheating in public. You're the only 6"9 person in the club OF COURSE WE KNEW IT WAS YOU.
Oh Tristan....
Boys like Tristan....
I secretly hope every time you wipe, your finger goes through the paper.
I hope every time you go to open an Avocado, it's as moldy, fucked up and as rotten as your heart.
Hoping someone is different from their past is great, and at times can be true, but always keep your guard up.
Past actions speak loud.
After all, as much as we think we know someone, we never TRULY know them and their secrets.
This goes for anyone..
Honesty is a very VERY expensive gift. So, just don't expect it from cheap people.
It sucks to let go when you have your hopes up for someone.
Even in the beginning, understandably so.
According to psychologists humans are biologically wired to become attached to whats familiar.
Which is why we hold on to things even if they're bad for us.
So when you see the signs...
RUN.
Being strong willed in this world is important.
Although strong willed women tend to come off as harsh, cold or "mean" simply because they refuse to be taken for granted, these women have a point.
If they don't stand up for themselves...
Who will?
So just relax and enjoy your alone time where no one can tell you what to do.
No one can tell you what music to play in the car.
Enjoy knowing no ones sneaking behind your back.
Enjoy your peace until your future man finds you.
Theres a positive side to every situation.
I positively believe that more men would be faithful if God took an inch off every time he did some sneaky shit.
If it doesn't work out the way we want, we start fresh.
Starting fresh can help us grow as humans and potentially lead us down a path to even better things, so don't be afraid to do you girl.
If Jennifer Aniston can get over Brad Fucking Pitt, you can get over that asshole.
Plus if he's stupid enough to walk away; be smart enough to let him go.
The Chair With Chels💋
We know that the mirror of a mans heart is in his actions.
So, why do we keep falling for it over and over again?
You'd think it would be simple.. RIGHT?
Appreciate us, text us back, play with our hair, bring us food and don't put your dick in anyone else.
But NOOO.
Too hard for you.
Good thing for me, i'd rather be single than have to deal with sneaky shit.
For those of you who think " But Chelsssssss like totally whats like a queen without her King?
Well...
Historically speaking, more powerful.
So, don't sweat it.
Like the wise Carrie Bradshaw once said; "Maybe our girlfriends are our soulmates and guys are just people to have fun with".
If you're a girl sitting there wondering where you went wrong after genuinely trying everything you could, don't get so down on yourself just because he left and did something stupid.
Just know that it isn't about you.
It never was.
Never has been.
Never gon be.
Men do not run away and cheat only because of you.
It's their own insecurities.
Most of the time they don't care if they get caught because they don't even know what they want.
Until what they want is what they can't have anymore.
For goodness sake, Our poor Khloe..
KHLOE OUT OF ALL BEAUTIFUL GODDESSES IN THE WORLD got cheated on at the worst time in history for her and Tristan didn't even try to hide it.
The man is 6"9, he's too tall to be cheating in public. You're the only 6"9 person in the club OF COURSE WE KNEW IT WAS YOU.
Oh Tristan....
Boys like Tristan....
I secretly hope every time you wipe, your finger goes through the paper.
I hope every time you go to open an Avocado, it's as moldy, fucked up and as rotten as your heart.
Hoping someone is different from their past is great, and at times can be true, but always keep your guard up.
Past actions speak loud.
After all, as much as we think we know someone, we never TRULY know them and their secrets.
This goes for anyone..
Honesty is a very VERY expensive gift. So, just don't expect it from cheap people.
It sucks to let go when you have your hopes up for someone.
Even in the beginning, understandably so.
According to psychologists humans are biologically wired to become attached to whats familiar.
Which is why we hold on to things even if they're bad for us.
So when you see the signs...
RUN.
Being strong willed in this world is important.
Although strong willed women tend to come off as harsh, cold or "mean" simply because they refuse to be taken for granted, these women have a point.
If they don't stand up for themselves...
Who will?
So just relax and enjoy your alone time where no one can tell you what to do.
No one can tell you what music to play in the car.
Enjoy knowing no ones sneaking behind your back.
Enjoy your peace until your future man finds you.
Theres a positive side to every situation.
I positively believe that more men would be faithful if God took an inch off every time he did some sneaky shit.
If it doesn't work out the way we want, we start fresh.
Starting fresh can help us grow as humans and potentially lead us down a path to even better things, so don't be afraid to do you girl.
If Jennifer Aniston can get over Brad Fucking Pitt, you can get over that asshole.
Plus if he's stupid enough to walk away; be smart enough to let him go.
The Chair With Chels💋
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